Monday, May 5, 2008

New Discoveries

Jordan and Brianna came home from the hospital Friday evening. We met the home care nurse, Julie, soon after they'd settled in, and found her to be very warm and reassuring, much nicer than we'd imagined. A week of discussions and decisions, of papers being handed to us that we didn't really want to read, or think about, or sign, had made us apprehensive, even leery, of change. But with our feet setupon this new path, we see that we can walk it, hand in hand, determined to do everything in our power that contributes to Jordan's happiness and comfort. We understand that having kind nurses visit us at home to do blood draws, adjust meds, problem solve, and to contact the docs for us is going to be a great help toward that end, after all. For instance, when he developped a fever late Saturday, it was obvious that it was very taxing for Jordan to have to return to the hospital just past midnight, following a good day and night spent at home enjoying the visits of two of his brothers and their families. Once there, the fever vanished on its own, but he was kept overnight for observation, nevertheless. A nap was the first order of business when we welcomed a very tired Jordan home again early Sunday afternoon. Upon waking from a short rest, he and Brianna went for their first turn about the neighborhood in a wheelchair borrowed from a local service club. Then he watched a little of The Count of Monte Cristo, before resorting to the peace and quiet of their own cozy quarters for the rest of the day.

On Friday, we discovered we were sharing our 1/5 acre with a devoted mallard and her nest full of eggs. Not even the chain saw and leaf blower employed by the man we'd engaged to tame our overgrown honeysuckle vine and misshapen boxwoods, induced her to desert her nestlings. Both young and old watched her with great interest from the large picture window of our living room all the next day, as the downy ducklings eagerly emerged from their shells. Hoping not to alarm her, we tried to keep some distance from the duck family as bread and water were set out for them. We pictured loving eyes looking down from the windows of heaven upon our family, similarly leaving little secret gifts within easy reach, intended for our sustenance and blessing.

Don't duck! Missy captures this family photo.
Aunt Penny braids dandelion garlands for Brooklyn and Lilly.

Our Sunday is sweetened by a surprise "heart attack."

9 comments:

Julie said...

Oh, it sounds like the little duck family will be a joy to watch!So glad Jordan did not have to stay too long at the hospital, that he got a good visit in with some of his brothers. It is good to know you all found some peace this past week-end and a kind and caring nurse and some thoughtful neighbors too.Our prayers continue for you all!!

Rebekah said...

The Lord's tender mercies come in a myriad of ways - - enjoy those lovely little ducklings. I'm glad you have a good, kind nurse for Jordan.

Your names are on the prayer roll here.

Hugs, prayers, and many warm thoughts. A few tears, too.

Elaine said...

Tender mercies are a wonderful thing! May you and your family be a recipient of many!

CortEmPeterson said...

I am continually inpired by the stregth of your family. Jordan, you and your family are in our prayers.

Louise said...

So glad to hear your weekend was "almost" hospital free. The pictures are beautiful, especially the granddaughters, their adorable! I found Jordan's Kinder-5th grade class pictures today at school and will be attempting to scan and e-mail them to you- I'm pretty clueless at this stuff. I pray you will be able to gain strength and peace during this time you have with Jordan. Love, Louise

Anonymous said...

Fantastic pictures! For my part, I would like donuts and diet pepsi instead of bread and water--if that is not beeing too greedy. And I would NEVER wander off if provided sustenance and a spot in the bushes to sleep.

I wonder if Jordan remembers "barely" beating Rohan with his Isengard several years ago? The battle raged on for hours... He got many laughs out of that escapade vs a true noob.

See ya round the block,

Felipe

P.S. The secret lies with Charlotte.

Becky Noftle said...

Praying for you all---and trusting that this part of the journey is as beautiful as the people who are traveling it.

Anonymous said...

Hi Bonnie,
Glad you and your family are getting to enjoy some of life's simple pleasures together.
Hannah had the nicest Hospice nurses and they indeed made things easier on our family.I wish the same for you guys.You can call them night or day and they are there!They will keep Jordan very comfortable!

Give Jordan a hug for me.Love the dandelion crowns!So cute.Also the ducks are beautiful and I'm sure a joy to watch!

Love You,
Deb
www.cllcfriends.com

Anonymous said...

Some of the simlest things bring us the most joy don't they. Duck families, dandelions and knowing someone is thinking of you. All simple, yet they all mean the world.
Liz